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Rediscover what a badass babe you are and fall in love with yourself. Let me tell you- any city girl can attest to the fact that dating in a big city is brutal-a lot of competition and a lot of people not wanting to really settle down.
I finally hit my breaking point after going on a vacation to California and reflecting on how I was living my life in a really unhealthy way.
He will probably sense this and it might kill the chemistry.
I would suggest you go into the date with an open mind and let it flow. He was constantly texting me asking how my day was, making small talk, saying we should get together, blah, blah, blah.
What I know now is that love will find you when the timing is right. As you bring to the surface anything that may be (consciously or subconsciously) holding you back and work through the issues, you will become more confident and more at peace.
Of course, after you’ve gotten past the appetizer and let’s say maybe 3 dates, then bring up the fact that you’re looking for something serious. The problem was when it actually came to making plans, he’d almost always break them. If I went out with a guy on a first date and just wasn’t feeling the chemistry, I didn’t have the courage to come out and say that.
He’d give some lame excuse about working late, being stressed at work etc. Instead, I would make up excuses when he would ask me out for a second date.
We were talking politics…on a first date…over drinks. At the time, I was a diehard Obama supporter (still am! Of course, the drinks did not help, adding to our lack of filters and I was really annoyed by the end of dinner. If you go into a date interviewing (or interrogating) him to be your future husband, you’re setting some impossibly high expectations.
It’s great to know what you want and to go for it, but you’re also putting an extreme amount of pressure on him and yourself.