Dating someone with schizophrenia
You spend the earlier parts of your relationship trying to “read” the other person; trying to make sure you’re both on the same page.
Then, once you’ve passed that phase, it’s on to really getting to know the other person.
Dealing with a mental illness or disorder can be one of the most debilitating and discouraging experiences someone can endure.
One begins to question one’s worth, one’s purpose and naturally, one’s sanity.
I mean you need to understand how your partner has learned to deal with his or her condition as an individual.
The way in which two individuals can deal with identical conditions can be anything but identical.
Holding your partner’s hand through his or her educational experience might aid in the acceptance process.
There will be days when your partner seems like a completely different person than he or she was on the first day that you met.
Some mental illnesses and disorders are just too complex and debilitating for one person to handle alone.You will see your partner at his or her highest highs and lowest lows, maybe irrational, lethargic, erratic, manic, aloof or incoherent.These are only a handful of the mixture of emotions and dispositions that may be found in just one condition, not to speak of an array. I can guarantee to you that your partner wishes things were different, that you didn’t have to see him or her like this.Instead, just continue to remind your partner of his or her best qualities.This exercise will be refreshing not only for your partner, but also for you.