Dating someone 7 years older than you dating a pregnancy from the conception date
They were all 401Ks, wine nights, and politics and I was all online shopping and tequila shots.Okay, maybe it wasn’t that stark, but it totally felt that way.See how it feels, and don't stress about birthdays a few years apart.Want more of Bustle's Sex and Relationships coverage?Paula Hall, a relationship psychotherapist, told the BBC that there are other non-breakfast related definite benefits, like "older partners have more life experiences which the younger partner can learn from, she said, while the younger partner can bring a new outlook." And if you need any more proof— there's a 12-year age gap between Jay-Z and Beyoncé . The good thing about one of you being older is that (maybe) they've gotten their sh*t together a little more than you.There can be something nice about both of you being like "WHAT AM I DOING? ", but someone who's a more settled can keep you grounded.It was clear that he wanted kids when I wouldn’t be ready for them.
If we’d stayed together, I know he would ask me to sacrifice my lifestyle to give him some babies. He really didn’t have it together as much as I expected.
No, we didn’t make fart jokes, but talking about dating and sex blunders at dinner or at the bar was absolutely par for the course (and still is).
As a result, my friendships suffered because I felt insecure about my friends and didn’t bring them around as much.
He was relatively seasoned and more advanced in his field.
This dynamic worked for us until I started making moves in my career, and quickly.